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In much of
modern theology—particularly in overly rationalized or disenchanted
interpretations of the soul-body relationship—there is a tragic bifurcation
between biology and spirit. Children are often reduced to mere biological
outcomes, with God presented as a kind of bureaucratic soul-inserter, dropping
spiritual payloads into otherwise mechanical processes. This view strips the
mystery from human intimacy and ignores what many spiritual traditions have
long intuited: that sexuality is not a sterile act of tissue and timing—it is a
sacred rite, and children are its spiritual fruit.
To say that
a child is merely the product of biology, with God tacking on a soul like a
name tag, is to imply that spirit hovers outside of flesh—externally imposed
rather than internally awakened. This view mirrors dualistic philosophies that
devalue the body and treat matter as morally neutral or even corrupt. But if we
affirm, as the Incarnation insists, that spirit and matter belong together—then
we must also affirm that the act of union between two lovers can itself be a
spiritually potent event, one that invites God not from above, but from within.
To separate
soul from seed is to split what was never meant to be divorced. Sexuality,
rightly understood, is not merely appetite or reproduction. It is mystical
participation in divine creativity. In the intimate joining of bodies, there is
also—if treated with reverence and covenant—a joining of essences. Love, trust,
longing, vulnerability, even the metaphysical ache to be known and to
know—these flow through the act like sacramental waters. This is not just
mating. It is invocation. The lovers become co-priests in a temple made of
flesh and delight, offering their oneness as a liturgy in which new life may be
conceived.
The child,
then, is not inserted by God as a postscript to biology. The child emerges
from the spiritual current already moving between the lovers. We speak of the
“fruit of the womb” for a reason. Fruit implies not just yield, but
cultivation. Something tended, cherished, and emerging from the life of the
whole tree—roots and branches, sunlight and sap. So too, a child is not merely
the result of gametes and growth. A child is the fruit of love’s vineyard,
formed as much by spirit as by cell.
This is not
sentimentalism—it’s a theology of enchantment. It recovers the idea that human
beings, made in the image of a God who creates through Word and Breath, are
themselves creators of sacred mysteries. The family becomes not a logistical
unit, but a garden of spiritual generation.
To teach
that children are merely biological artifacts to which God adds “the soul
component” is to flatten what should evoke awe. It’s like describing a symphony
as vibrating strings or a cathedral as stacked rocks. True sexuality invites
reverence. It insists that something more is happening—something that
reverberates in eternity.
We must
return to a vision of sexuality not as base instinct to be policed, nor as a
clinical process to be managed—but as sacred dance, as covenantal fire, as the
fertile moment in which the spiritual and the biological co-mingle like water
and wine. Only then can we raise children not as chance combinations of genes
but as spiritual inheritances, born from the holy communion of two souls.
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